Struggling to Describe Yourself? Read This

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How would you describe yourself to someone?

If someone asked you to describe yourself, what would you say?

Would you list your degrees, your job title, or your hobbies?

Or would you pause, unsure where to begin—because how do you explain someone who’s still figuring it out?

That’s exactly how I feel.

I’ve often wondered what the “right” answer is.
But the truth is, there’s no one-size-fits-all way to describe a person—especially not when that person is growing, evolving, and learning every single day.

So here’s my honest attempt to answer:




🌿 I’m a Work in Progress

I don’t have it all figured out.
Sometimes I feel confident in my plans, and other times I’m just winging it. One day I’m learning to code, excited about building something new. The next day I’m overthinking every line of HTML or wondering if I’m even going in the right direction.

And you know what? That’s okay.

I’ve learned that life doesn’t come with a roadmap.
You’re allowed to be a beautiful mess.
You’re allowed to grow at your own pace—even if someone else seems miles ahead.



I’m Curious (Almost to a Fault)

I like knowing how things work. Why people act the way they do.
Why some websites feel so intuitive and others don’t.
Why some days feel heavy, and others feel light.

I ask “why” a lot—not just out loud, but internally.

I think that curiosity is what drives me to learn, to explore new tools, to take on challenges that feel slightly outside my comfort zone. It’s what led me to start blogging, building websites, and slowly creating my space online.



💬 I Overthink but I Also Reflect

I think a lot—about my choices, my mistakes, what I said in a conversation, whether I’m doing “enough.”

But that overthinking slowly taught me how to reflect.

Instead of beating myself up, I’ve started asking better questions:
“What did I learn from this?”
“What can I do differently next time?”
“What actually matters right now?”

And from that space of reflection, I’ve become more aware of what I want—and what I don’t.



💡 I Try (Even When It’s Scary)

Whether it’s launching a blog, applying for a job abroad, or asking for help—I try.

Even when I’m unsure. Even when I’m scared.
Even when I feel like I don’t belong in the room, I remind myself: you showed up—that counts for something.

Trying is hard. Showing up is brave.
And that’s the part of me I’m learning to be proud of.




🤝 I Care—Sometimes Too Much

I care deeply—about people, conversations, outcomes, the little things.
Sometimes it drains me. Sometimes it gets me hurt.
But I wouldn’t want to be any other way.

Because caring means I show up fully.
It means I give my best.
It means I feel connected—to my work, to people, and to myself.




🪞So, how would I describe myself?

I’d say I’m a curious, reflective, sometimes messy, sometimes magical person—who’s learning to balance her dreams with her doubts, her ambition with her peace, and her heart with her boundaries.

I’m not perfect, polished, or always sure.
But I’m real.
And maybe that’s more than enough.




If you’ve ever found it hard to describe yourself, I hope this reminds you that you don’t need to shrink into labels or perfect lines.

You are allowed to be in-between.
To change.
To grow.
To take up space—as you are.

So… how would you describe yourself?

Let me know. I’m listening. 🤍

4 responses to “Struggling to Describe Yourself? Read This”

  1. noor_ Avatar

    Over – thinking is mother of all problems 😂

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    1. Kriti Ranjan Avatar

      Yes it is 😅🤣

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      1. noor_ Avatar

        But don’t your tell your mother ok 😅

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      2. noor_ Avatar

        *don’t tell this joke

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